They took me to jail and left her with the mother who they just stated was wasted. He terrorized all of us in the car. Who wakes up and decides that the parent that was perfectly acceptable yesterday, is a monster today, and that, to gain some advantage or satisfy some selfish desire, it is okay to go on a mission to destroy the other parent, alienating them by saying that parent is suddenly a child molesting, drug addict, who beats their child? Mothers mostly want what’s best for their kids. I moved back east where I was from, to a friends house. Devastated that my now ex taught them to lie and attempt to incite paranoia. I had no lawyer and I was accused of a crime. Talk to the social security office ASAP. You don’t have to respond but I am here to chat if it helps you. Mind you this was all ON THE RECORD! She has exclusive custody of our children. She lied her cute little butt off and claimed domestic violence in the form of harassment. i am currently dealing with this exact thing my girlfriend left town with my son and has filed a restraining order in another county in the hopes i will miss the court date and she is claiming i sexually physically abused her and my son i love my son more than anything in this world and the idea that i would hurt him or his mother in any way makes me absolutely sick to my stomach its complete bullsh#t and is nothing but lies to try to get the upper hand in a custody case so far this has almost cost me my job my guns my right to see or talk to my son not to mention all the money i am going to have to spend to defend myself. I feel like I am on a hamster wheel that won’t stop spinning until I totally run out of money to keep playing. My son had already sent the recorded call of my grandson to them so they knew she was lying and again a slap on the wrist and dont do it again. I wasnt allowed in the courtroom with my son, the AAG made sure of that. I attempted numerous settlements, the court threw out his motion to modify child support in 2018. Its been back for years now. I. Any good news updates? I’m so sorry this has happened to you. He continues to wear a helmet now for 2 years and believes there is something wrong with him. Ill never forget that moment… But U.K. don’t seem to care! I, recently, found a support group. also passed sic test and all drug text so rule tho out……there will be change we r voices every body should have faith in our system, This is what is going on now with my daughters baby , from the time the baby was 9 weeks old ! Read the book Divorce Poison it is also an exact replication of the above and describes in detail how things get to this point. An emergency order issued by the court to suspend all parenting time put in place. When we had returned to Florida, a few weeks later I had received a temporary injunction on my birthday (a week after Fathers Day) in front of my peers. The clerk? It will not be easy and will require a lot of patience and talking to get anyone to listen. Our legal system is convoluted and very unfair! I was just trying to stay alive after having two heart failures. So I begged with the State Prosecutor to drop the charges. He would ask her why she doesn’t text him as much. No … the odds were stacked against me before I go to the courtroom that morning. N yes, i have worked for the courts and it’s disgusting inside and out. I lost my case because of it. I guess he couldn’t take me leaving and had me in and out of court every other month. I’m devastated without my precious children. New York: A landlord could be fined between $3,000 and 11,000 for each harassment offense they are convicted of. Make sure you get the right lawyer people I am unsatisfied with the representation I paid for. Me and my family are separatered do to lack of due process and we're having problems with the state appointed lawyer we don't have the help we need someone who is. HE had lost his job. he is now 6. and my daughter isnt allowed to even have visitation with her son. This sounds rather familiar in a sense… HOwever my Son is a victim of his Grandmother who Not only CONTROLS him but mainly his Father who is a VERY BIZARRE case of “Mommas BOY” at 45yrs old… TO begin we were NEver married, he got me pregnant ON purpse he trapped me in Such a way that I got pregnant and from there Forward his mother did EVERYTHING she could to The Father and MY relationship…. Now we find that she has finally moved on to blaming her own flesh and blood sixteen years old daughter. I am just getting f:Ed from all ways … Think of this beautiful child and please if anyone Has anything that might help me floating around in their head, please. I said no of course not you know better. No evidence because it’s all made up. thx! Password requirements: 6 to 30 characters long; ASCII characters only (characters found on a standard US keyboard); must contain at least 4 different symbols; He was never home. Everything about this case is corrupted. Dads who love their babies don’t do that. It’s disgusting how people use children just to hurt the other partner. My daughter was in my custody for 13 months and he fought for his 50/50 to pay less child support. Omg reading these stories my heart is breaking!!!! Fast forward to Jan 2017, He filed a modification of child support and a modification for parenting time asking for 50% custody. in fact it wold be 2 weeks before I would be ALLOWED to let my son meet his new older siblings… I was VERY MUCH CONTROLLED LIKE A PUPPET AND IF I DEFIED THE WOULD KEEP MY NEW BABY AWAY FROM ME and ccall the pOlice to keep me away and NOT ansewr the phone if I called….. They are also using my x stuff against me! This is a simple truth which many bitter or selfish parents do not consider during divorce or custody disputes. Instead he proudly burned them on a bonfire in front of the kids and left them outside to the elements. She was poked and prodded, peered at and photographed by doctors. Im poor black and disabled with no resources to fight cps. Treated like a common criminal on house arrest without the privilege of a lawyer or any investigator, to find the truth. I had NEVER HEARD ANYTHING SO SICKENING IN M ENITRE LIFE… ad from that moment I feared for my baby…. … Because lies never make sense, even in a kids head. OK……..??? Of course, she was taken out of school that day and given to her dad with no notice to me until i picked her up from school, only to be shunned and told they didn’t know where she was. That is the only way these individuals can be stopped from causing further abuse towards the victims. It would save the courts and everyone involved a s* ton of money except for the high rolling lawyers and such! I was mailed the transcript. My son is 5 years old with speech problem! I found out by Facebook she had passed away. He did this because he lost control of me when i left and was determined to punish me and get his revenge. What happened?? But I’m disabled & now lost everything! I filed my response and my hearing was on 1/3/20 so i already havent seen or heard from my son since Thanksgiving then at the hearing i was told that his mother asked for a continuance and they pushed it to the 22nd. Later that day we were told there was no sufficient evidence of domestic but that they would do us a favor and kick the case out of the court system and give my wife and I individual counseling, and CPS would retain custody of our kids. You let him run you around by your nose. You will find none… I know cause this is the nightmare I’ve lived for a year plus. This is taking over my life! Does “accusing” your soon to be ex really level the “playing field”? http://www.change.org/petitions/office-of-children... wow i had a cps report made on me the day my daughter was born a few hours after she was born the report was made and most of the things reported werent true but almost 3 months later i still have an active case...they said the person who reported me was unonomus ...dont u have to give your name when you report someone? After about 3 more months he had been receiving counseling so I dropped it so the kids could have visits with him...this went well for a couple months but then right back to the same stuff when he found out that my now boyfriend and I started talking (Nov 14). I said fine, I will call a lawyer, and I went for my cell phone. If they don't have to give their name then why should I have to deal with their harassment? See more of Dean Tong, MSc on Facebook The court will not listen to us, period. It is a nightmare he is active duty military and it is involving 2 states. Sorry to all who are going through this. What Family Courts tend to do when there is suspected child abuse in a divorce case is to remove the child from the protective parent and place them with the abusive parent (most often the parent who has the most money.). Amberrbarnes@gmail.com on January 03, 2017: ---------- Forwarded message ---------i need help and don't know what way to turn. After big arguments i took my son and left. My son ended up in the hospital over the weekend with 104 fever because of Mercer and i wasnt informed till monday. The Parents are then denied the right to be present at interviews and examinations and in many cases are not allowed to speak with their children. My son got put into foster care in the state of Florida. I wish for them to be adopted by their stepdad making him their dad. My good friend was done this was her child father who is 130K in back child support came after her after the Attorney General off started pressing him. My kids were being turned against me and told him whatever they thought he wanted to hear. Yet here we are again except this time we have a new judge. This enables consistent modification request filings every 2 years regardless of whether anything has changed. Levelland texas has the worst judge right after the dad got the cops and peaple that work there to change the real report and because hes a cop he made a deal with judge thats how he got the kids what should i do. They love ligitation!game to them to use your kids as weapons to mentally destroy you. This all started at a very young age i was kept inder lock and key growing up and into this relationship.. One reason that our judicial system is that they dont charge Purjury ,Plan and simple if there is no consequence to lying to the court then why tell the truth.And if you allow them to lie then there is no reason to have courts.The lame court system is causing the downfall of america and here is where the changes need to be made we must all get together and demand change or nothing will get done This is a perfect example of government doing things to make money. Anyone have any of their own stories from which I can draw wisdom? I’ve taken all of the Firearms out of the house because I don’t trust her with them, and the only thing I have is a few electronics my work clothes and my boots. You will feel remorseful and guilty for these backfires too. There has got to be a stop to this ABUSE!! I knew nothing about it. You will never guess what I have done? He told my daughter he was showing the texts to doctors because texting me was unhealthy. My attorney in the dissolution said dont worry bout cps that we were doing everything we needed to be doing in family court . I’ve been reading through some replies to get help, to seek guidance has anyone had any luck? How many parents are losing custody of their children, losing decision-making abilities, losing the right to access records based on fabrications? $$$ dept , i am unfit for my youngest daughter but fit for my other 2 children, i am just now getting 42$$$ in child support ……….. my daughter name has been changed 3 time in multiple county, i will not stop ever …. They have slandered my name and reputation with the courts with false accusations such as "parent drug abuse" I was denied "Due Process" when my daughter was first taken into custody they didn't inform me of the time and day of the first initial hearing that took place during the first 72 hrs she was taken. Cps worker wont tell me anything except i see you in court. I have spent all my savings on lawyers who have all left me hanging. He came out, changed his life, worked hard, and we met. He walked away and didn’t even want to see the child ever again. Should anyone be reading this, I hope that should you file anything in a family court you include your evidence with it. My daughter saw it!!! Once accused, no one believes the parent. Wrong is wrong and in this particular case, not one person was right on rulings or decision making for the health and well being of me and/or my daughter. I am so sorry for your loss and pain of you baby, Reading your comment made my heart sink. I have a court date coming up and my ex has told everyone I had raped her which has produced a child. A phone call from the regional director stating "I have spoke with DCFS's attorney regarding this matter and he said he wouldn't let it happen again so this matter is over". I am not experiencing the same thing. He had a history of family violent cases that were NOT allowed to be brought up in court! I believe in God and know he is real and times have stopped my self from yelling why God ?why?. Civil harassment suits are very common in the following cases: Workplace Discrimination. It’s a profit center for the courts and an open door for harassment of proper parents by ex-spouses who use the children as a means to do so. Go to Him for all your needs!! The emotional abuse to a child involved in this type of litigation based upon false statements often times irreparably changes the course of a child’s life. My son is only 16 months. between the last trial and the date they placed him in his birth dads cousity. They’ve kept my children from me wherever it’s suited them and have made my life hell. I asked if it was the boys he was having problems with at school he said no but put his head down. With no rights to his daughter. He does not work or have a license. Very informative … I am going through same abuse that my EX is putting on me . SHE PAID FOR HIS… HE NEVER EVEN KNEW WHAT THE ORDER SAID>>>> HE admitted that to me… that she wrote it all and he just signed it… SICK SELFISH WORLD we live in…. We were best buddies and I showed them nothing but unconditional love ,support and friendship. So when I upmto court a lawyer show up to for me he doesn’t k or anything about the case I had evidence showing that the case workerlied about every thing bit was not allowed to say anything and my lawyer didn’t not even try to help me what can I do to get my kids back my daughter has been abuse in the foster care cps removed them from there but it should have never happened they took them with out a courtorder. The girls pleaded not to go to his alcoholic mothers with his nieces and nephews doing so much cocaine their noses bled. My ex tried to do the same with the younger children but thankfully they were able to see through the indescrepencies and lies they were being fed. He wasn't even there at the time. Just because she had a lawyer and I didn’t I was the crappy parent. My son is 3 turning 4 in July. I am now not able to see my kids or go anywhere near my kids; I am not able to go to our church or talk to our parish priest (they are afraid of getting involved); I am driving around with a dash camera in my car; We have a Guardian ad Litem in place to investigate and decide on custody/visitation AND 3 days before court (after 6+ weeks) my wife got a Therapist involved for our 7 year old. Why have I been told I have less rights than a criminal? I’m terrified if she gets a bump or scrape, etc. I went through this in May 2011. Being assaulted, raped or even murdered by other prisoners because of what they thought I was guilty of. I wish for them to be adopted by their stepdad making him their dad. 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